One day，in a class meeting，our classmate John asked all of us a question：You are driving down the road in your car （1）

on

on

a wild，stormy night， （2）

when

when

you pass by a bus stop and you see three people waiting for the bus anxiously - An old lady who looks as if she is about to die and needs to（3）

be sent

be sent

（send） to hospital at once，an old friend（4）

who/that

who/that

once saved your life and the perfect partner you have been dreaming about． （5）

Knowing

Knowing

（know） that there can only be one passenger in your car，whom would you choose？
    Perhaps it was just like the same old question of which one to save when your mother and wife fall into the river at the same time．All of us gave our own answers with our own reason to make that choice．Yet everyone was amazed when John gave a possible version：Help the old lady into the car first．Then you can give your car to your friend so that he can drive（6）

her

her

to hospital，and wait （7）

with

with

your perfect partner for the bus．
    Later on，I asked different people the same questions again on different （8）

occasions

occasions

（occasion），and all agreed that the solution above is the best way． （9）

However

However

，none of us，including me，thought of that in the first place．
    If we give up an advantage （like the car），（10）

or

or

if we stop being narrow-minded，we may actually end up gaining more．