8.A teenage girl writes to Choices magazine,asking for help with a problem,and other teens give their advice.
The Problem
Dear Choices, My mother never lets me go out alone with any of my friends.Every time I want to go out,she gives me an incredibly long and boring speech.When I try to state my totally reasonable case,we end up arguing.I'm a girl of 16.I think I'm absolutely mature enough to go out alone with my friends.What should I do?-Sara T. |
Four Replies
I think our moms might be twins.They're both so unfair.You should do what I do.Go out anyway.After all,you are 16!That's obviously old enough to go out alone with your friends.Naturally,I've made some mistakes.But I've learned from them.And so far,I haven't gotten into any trouble.-Steven E. Your mom's probably strict because she loves you.Naturally,she doesn't want you to go out without supervision because she's afraid you'll get hurt.You should definitely follow her directions.Remember that she loves you and that you're the most important person in her life.I know my mom feels that way about me!-José G. Your mom is not so reasonable,but perhaps you can work out some kind of compromise(妥協(xié)).Invite your friends to your house,and let your mom get familiar with them.Maybe you'll find some middle ground!-Maria M. I had the same trouble with my mom's rules at your age.(I'm 18 now.)Next time your mom gives you "the speech," say: "Mom,I know what you're saying,but let me explain my side." Then present your case.Tell your mom where you'll be,how long you'll be out,and who's going to be there.Then she won't be so worried about you.-Shawna S. |
(1)Why does Sara's mother always give long and boring speeches?
A.To prevent her going out.
B.To explain their family rules.
C.To make her behave properly.
D.To teach her how to make friends.
(2)Who totally supports Sara's mother?
A.Steven E.
B.José G.
C.Maria M.
D.Shawna S.
(3)What does Shawna advise Sara to do?
A.Ask Mom for some suggestions.
B.Argue with Mom about her orders.
C.Tell Mom the details of her trip out.
D.Give Mom a long and boring speech.